No more

Yesterday I had a bad day and the origins of it can be found in the amount of sleep I had. Every weekend I am able to unwind, to relax and to sleep. When I am with Master, I am able to do those thi…

Difficult conversations

Right now, my life if full of them. Last week I had to deal with hubby's inability to move forward with what needs to happen to end our relationship. As I feel

Difficult conversations

Right now, my life if full of them. Last week I had to deal with hubby’s inability to move forward with what needs to happen to end our relationship. As I feel stronger and more secure in myself (and right … Continue reading →

Reflecting on last night

It is hard to express how difficult I found it to take charge of a situation such as was necessary yesterday. Every aspect of the time spent out with hubby screamed at me as something I didn’…

Reflecting on last night

It is hard to express how difficult I found it to take charge of a situation such as was necessary yesterday. Every aspect of the time spent out with hubby scre

On the cusp

Today feels really important.Today is the day, I finally feel strong enough to do what needs to be done.Today is the day I get together with hubby to sort out how we will end things – there a…

On the cusp

Today feels really important. Today is the day, I finally feel strong enough to do what needs to be done. Today is the day I get together with hubby to sort o

6 Months

Friday was the 6 month anniversary of the day I met a man in a pub for a drink. That day was cool and damp. The UK had been 'enjoying' one of the wettest winter

6 Months

Friday was the 6 month anniversary of the day I met a man in a pub for a drink. That day was cool and damp. The UK had been ‘enjoying’ one of the wettest winters on record and the roads … Continue reading →

Not just a label

I have been troubled over the last few days by a comment on a forum which appeared on my Fetlife page this week. It was written by a 'friend' who in fact is som