Who am I?
My name is Julie and I am a CIS heterosexual woman in her late 50’s. My pronouns are she / her. For the past 8 years I have been known as Master’s Pleasing Bitch or MPB for short. In 2020 I have shortened the name of the blog to MPB, but I am still Master’s Pleasing Bitch.
I live with Graeme, my Master and we have a 24/7 TPE relationship, though that ebbs and flows and is sometimes more evident than at other times. You can read about that here.
I’ve been a sex blogger since 2012 when I began my BDSM journey with a man who wasn’t my husband. I’d been married for close on 30 years at the time and decided I wanted more from life than I was getting. In April 2020 I finally divorced and while it took longer than it should have I am now free to marry again, or not.
You can find out more about my marriage and why I decided to end it here.
I embarked on a LDR with a man called Steve (who I often refer to as S these days). You can find out more about that relationship here.
My current relationship
I met Graeme in February 2014 having been dumped for the second time by Steve. What was meant to have been a secondary polyamorous relationship, soon turned into something pretty serious. By June of that year I was Graeme’s slave and before the end of that year we were in a monogamous relationship.
You can read about the difficulties I experienced with my fellow slave here. And some posts explaining why I struggled with polyamory here.
We have lived together since July 2018.
The name MPB
Within weeks of us meeting Master named me his pleasing bitch or MPB for short. At the beginning of our relationship I mainly wrote in the third person. You can read more about that here.
I am a collared slave
Master collared me in the summer of 2015, there was no special ceremony, just the two of us. I knelt before Master and he locked it in place. You can read about the occasion and other posts relating to being collared here.
What do I write about in this blog?
From the beginning I wrote about my relationships – with my husband, my new partners and my family. As I explored my submission I wrote about that and about the new sexual experiences I was having. This has continued but I write about a lot more than my own relationship. Over the years I have joined in with many of the memes that fellow sex bloggers own and host. All work here is my own and I am not frightened to express my opinion. Over the years I have shared numerous photos of myself and my Master. I have also tried my hand at erotic fiction.
These are some of my most popular posts:
I have written a series of non fiction and fiction posts about female chastity: Chastity – does a girl need to be locked in?; Female Chastity – physical or emotional and Love lock. These have proved to be the most popular posts on my site for the past couple of years. In 2021 I published the first of a 3 part M/s story: A weekend in a chastity belt: Part 1 The gift. Part 2 will follow very soon.
Submissive training – Is it necessary?: provides my thoughts on submission and whether or not training is necessary or desirable.
Sexual service: I am essentially a sex slave and my role is to provide sexual service.
Review: The Kinky Suite Amsterdam: We have been visited a few private dungeon spaced over the year and this review is particularly popular on the blog.
In September 2018 I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer. I have been candid about this experience, both physically and emotionally. Posts relating to that aspect of my life can be found here.
Being Positive: is my most popular photographs and was posted for Sinful Sunday and was taken about a year after my mastectomy.
In August 2020 I wrote this article for the Godemiche blog about my experiences.