It's over

The relationship I have been having for the past 15 months with the man who I called Sir on this website and often outside of it is over.There have been no arguments, no crossed words even. I belie…

Looking forward

So yesterday ended in disappointment. But as they say tomorrow is another day. In fact so is today. My life, as Sir is always reminding me, is mainly positive these days. Redundancy has brought with it new opportunities; new car, … Continue reading →

The best laid plans

The opportunities for Sir and i to get together at the moment are limited. We are just busy people, with lives to live, work to do and family to please. On Sunday, faced with the prospect of not seeing Sir … Continue reading →

What I would like right now

Is to be in bed with my Sir, waking to a sunny morning, after the  night before. This morning I woke alone, as I do often these days. If I were in bed with him now, at 6 am, I would hope to st…

This and that

I am having a quiet time when it comes to kink and all that goes with it. Unfortunately I haven't been able to see Sir for the last couple of weeks, due to work, social and family commitments on both sides. Mean time, a post about this and that....The first week of my diet has gone well. I lost 4.5l

Time for action

Redundancy and then time off work has been great for my general wellbeing. I feel relaxed, my batteries recharged. It has done nothing for my weight.This morning I decided to get back to my Wii wor…

Exciting times

Despite the mess that is my marriage, essentially I am having a really good time right now. I have discovered that with a bit of effort, good things can happen. Granted I have been helped along by …

24 Hours

That is exactly how much time we had together this week. During that time there was time for sleep (approximately 7 or so), time for food and time to sit and watch a movie. But as well as that we went out for the whole afternoon to get us some countryside and culture and we spent a good deal of time

Letter to hubby

B,On Sunday we have been married for 29 years. That is a lifetime – we have both been married for longer than we were single. We have had some great times, how ever would we have stayed toget…

My first blog from France

It’s great to be writing this on my balcony overlooking a harbour in France. I’d like to say that I have just come off of the beach after a day of sunbathing, but after a sunny start it…