Intensity
At the end of my relationship with S we often barely spoke for weeks, let alone see each other. The level of intensity with this… Read More »Intensity
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New Horizons
I definitely didn’t hang around. Nor did I shed a tear which demonstrated that it was time to move on. Two new horizons. From Feb… Read More »New Horizons
Is submission caused by trauma or mental illness?
This week’s No True Way prompt asks whether submission is caused by trauma or mental illness. A person, who identifies as submissive, went through some kind… Read More »Is submission caused by trauma or mental illness?
The vulnerability of submission
“Staying vulnerable is a risk we have to take if we want to experience connection” Brené Brown I have exposed the vulnerable side of myself… Read More »The vulnerability of submission
Only strong women need apply?
The No True Way prompt for this week is about the idea that submissives are strong independent women seeking a release. “Submission appeals to responsible,… Read More »Only strong women need apply?
How I have evolved over the years
The second self reflection prompt examines how I have evolved over time. The past year, five and ten years. As I mentioned in my last… Read More »How I have evolved over the years
A sense of fear
This week’s prompt for No True Way relates to this newsletter that provides strategies for a play scene. One of which is creating a sense… Read More »A sense of fear
Thoughts on kneeling
I’ve written a few times about kneeling, that well known symbol of submission. There are also a few images of me doing so, including the… Read More »Thoughts on kneeling
How much control does the submissive have?
Many people say that it is the submissive that has all the power and control in a D/s relationship. After all, the decision to enter… Read More »How much control does the submissive have?
The need for dominance
I thought I liked to be in charge. To have the final say, to get my own way. Well I do, but only up to… Read More »The need for dominance