coming clean

Posts about telling my husband I was cheating and wanted to end our relationship

Relationships

“Oh what a complicated web we weave,  when first we practise to deceive!” – Sir Walter Scott Around a year ago, i was feeling particularly… Read More »Relationships

This is my blog and I will ramble if I want to

I was short of a title and this is the best I can do.  It is strange that I always tend to give my blog… Read More »This is my blog and I will ramble if I want to

Grieving for a relationship lost

For the first time in weeks, hubby and i resided in the same house, and did things together this weekend. He is now away more… Read More »Grieving for a relationship lost

Is it worth it?

There are going to be 3 distinct phases to this weekend. The first which has already started is to do with preparation and about coping… Read More »Is it worth it?

While the cat’s away the mouse goes shopping

Things round here have swung from one extreme to the other. i remember, that before Christmas, i was feeling rather claustrophobic as hubby expressed his undying… Read More »While the cat’s away the mouse goes shopping

This weekend

Will probably help to define the rest of my life. It has been 6 weeks or so since i last saw Sir. Since then, home… Read More »This weekend

Ups and Downs

i think that best describes how things are right now. Hubby and i have had a number of really good days, but any time i… Read More »Ups and Downs

Time to myself

For the first time in about a week I have time to breathe, to relax and to do as I wish unwatched. Hubby has gone… Read More »Time to myself

Bad to worse

There is no kinkiness in my life right now, just a life trying to pacify hubby and the need to sort out a job. I… Read More »Bad to worse

Struggling on

My access to the computer and particularly anything involving typing is restricted right now to times when I am alone. If my aim in all… Read More »Struggling on