Question memes
Back in 2012 and 2013 there were great periods of time when I had little to write about. Having embarked upon an illicit affair with… Read More »Question memes
30 days of D/s
When life gets in the way
Today’s 30 days of D/s question is about what happens when the trials of life get in the way of a dominant / submissive relationship.… Read More »When life gets in the way
When we are apart
Today’s 30 days of D/s post is about what happens to our dynamic when we are apart from each other. Until last summer there were… Read More »When we are apart
Thinking about rules
I’ve written a few times recently about rules. In September for Food for Thought Friday I wrote about the rules of life and a little… Read More »Thinking about rules
Thoughts on pain
I struggle, even after all this time to understand my body’s reaction to pain. After all pain is meant to be a stimulus that warns… Read More »Thoughts on pain
Introducing D/s into a vanilla relationship
This is something that I never did. When I started to read about Dominance and submission the one thing I knew deep down was that… Read More »Introducing D/s into a vanilla relationship
Issues of consent
Today’s topic on the 30 days of D/s is consent. I wrote a comprehensive post about consent and what it means to me for my… Read More »Issues of consent
Safeword
You often read of slaves that have no limits and no safeword, but in essence I have both. As I wrote last time, Master takes… Read More »Safeword
My Limits
When I came into this relationship I did so with few preconceived ideas. Though I’d been in another D/s type relationship there was little I’d… Read More »My Limits
Negotiating a power exchange relationship
At the beginning of our relationship there was a certain element of excitement. At times it felt we were throwing ourselves into the situation, pushing… Read More »Negotiating a power exchange relationship