Qualities to look for in a partner
I’m not sure I’ve always been the best judge of what qualities to look for in a partner. But I know that I hit the… Read More »Qualities to look for in a partner
psychology of M/s
Ownership and possession
I’m behind with the blogging A-Z but for a good reason. We’ve been away for the weekend, staying with friends and delayed our return until… Read More »Ownership and possession
What did he see in me?
Is it possible for a dominant to recognise a submissive at first sight? Using some kind of instinct? Indeed is the opposite true? Is it… Read More »What did he see in me?
31 Days of Self Reflection – A series
The second Obscene Ideas workbook was released on Friday. This one focuses on self reflection. I’ve decided to strike before the ink on it is… Read More »31 Days of Self Reflection – A series
A sense of fear
This week’s prompt for No True Way relates to this newsletter that provides strategies for a play scene. One of which is creating a sense… Read More »A sense of fear
Taking your kink into a public place
I saw the tweet referred to in the No True Way prompt. Someone walking behind another who is leashed and crawling into a supermarket. I… Read More »Taking your kink into a public place
How much control does the submissive have?
Many people say that it is the submissive that has all the power and control in a D/s relationship. After all, the decision to enter… Read More »How much control does the submissive have?
Taking orders from Master
A submissive shouldn’t question a dominant’s orders. It’s not the submissive’s position to know what a dominant’s reasons are. They should just do it and… Read More »Taking orders from Master
Being this girl
In many ways being this girl is like being someone else. Someone that exists only to be his and to serve. That was likely the… Read More »Being this girl
Love and life right now
Deep down I knew that the Coronavirus lockdown would last for months rather than weeks. But that doesn’t mean to say that I was emotionally… Read More »Love and life right now