Very interesting questions
1. What is the first thing you do when you wake up?
During the working week I make coffee or tea (depending on how I feel and what kind of day is ahead) and breakfast. At weekends we get up, showered and dressed (maybe after sex) and then have coffee. There is currently no particular routine, which is fine by me.
2. What is the last thing you do before you go to sleep?
Take my clothes off and clean my teeth. Master has a much better moisturising routine than I do, which is why when we are 70 he will look 50 and I will look 90!
3. Are you a giver or taker?
A giver. My whole life has been about giving to others. Right now at work, people are busy taking everything they can from me. I am work in progress there! Because contrary to what people might think my M/s life is gives me exactly what I need. This is because while I serve He gives back to me in terms of structure, discipline and rules. Most of all though He offers me the chance to be myself, to feel safe and loved.
4. If you had to give yourself a new name, what would it be?
This girl. This is my name as far as Master is concerned. I would love to live in a world where our there was acceptance of my status as His slave and understood. For many people this might seem odd. I seem dominant and in control while all of the time I need reassurance, guidance and control. What I hate is that I might seem to alternate between some kind of scary dominant person and a door mat. My preference would be to just be allowed to be myself.
5. A world-famous chef ask you to make dinner, what would you make?
I think that you are better playing to your strengths. My nephews and nieces consider my lasagne second to none, so perhaps that is the place to go.
Bonus: What’s the worst advice you ever received?
People who advised me to accept what I have and not to rock the boat. Then developed amnesia. We all deserve happiness and shouldn’t have to wait until we are in our 50’s!
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