There are a number of things we have done in a public place. I have often worn no underwear beneath my clothes when out, either shopping, visiting public places or perhaps eating in a restaurant. Most of the time I am oblivious to what people either notice or think. Personally I am of the opinion that people are so wrapped up in their own lives, or perhaps their phones to know or care what others do around them. Indeed I frequently climb over people on the train who don’t even know I was sitting next to them, so much are they absorbed by their phone or tablet computer! Master and I often observe others in the course of their daily lives and wonder if they even notice us. And not just because we are people in our 50’s and so invisible to younger people.
Anyway, I digress. The one thing that I haven’t done is to play and be played with in public. I have had sex in a public place, but unseen by public eyes. I have been touched up (frequently) in public, and as far as I know been unseen by anyone. I say as far as I know since no one has ever indicated otherwise or called the police.
We have spoken a lot about visiting a club and playing in public. This appeals to me on a number of levels. While Master has quite a lot of equipment, his playroom at home is restricted in size and range of larger equipment. But mainly when we play at home there is just us. We can’t watch others and they can’t see us. More than anything that is for me the next level of kink that I aspire to climb.
I own kinky clothes that would have more impact in a public place. I know people that I would love to see in a different arena from the local munch. I am an extrovert and I like an audience. But what I don’t know until I try is if I would like to play in a public place.
Would I be as keen for others to see me in pain, to whimper and protest. Would I want to admit that I am aroused by those feelings. Would I want to be seen by an audience in a situation that today I have only experienced in private?
Yes, actually I think I do.
I love how you question yourself. I think that once you start to play in a public place and you are totally focused on your partner, you will forget about the people watching. I think that's how it will be for me…
Rebel xox
I think playing in public holds a certain fascination for me. And i would do it too – if it was something BIKSS wanted. Only i dont think he does. And honestly Im not too miffed about that 🙂
We have played outside….with people around…but never at a play party. Lately I have become more interested in trying that….
hugs abby
Yes, I am sure you are right. Hoping I get the chance to find out soon.
Well it has to be right for you both 🙂
So similar abby xxx
Oh I love public play for all these reasons and more, it just adds a whole new buzz to everything
mollyxxx