Unlike day 11, 12-15 lend themselves to a multiple post, so here goes.
Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had.
Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
Maybe this girl has always known she was different to other people when it comes to sex, and things that turn her on. It was always easier to ignore those feelings than face them though. In the end though, facing the reality of who you are is easier than turning your back on it.
This girl is turned on by the idea of submitting to another. What is more that submission provides a release from thoughts that would otherwise invade her mind.
This girl finds being restrained (in more ways than being bound by the wrists for example) something that is erotic but also calming.
Pain and pleasure are very closely linked
A person doesn’t need to be constrained by the ideas (she) has about what is ‘normal’. Indeed, by giving those decisions to another a person can find that those original thoughts have moved somewhat.
Just when you think you might have travelled as far as you can, BDSM sends you further on that journey of self discovery.
Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink?
Day 15: Post A BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.
We haven’t played at a club but that will change soon.