I drove up to the house and found the driveway blocked by a car.
I leaned on the car horn, there was no response.
Once again, and nothing.
I got out of the car, the temperature cool, unseasonably so for May. It was raining.
I banged on the window (ok, so I have no doorbell)
I was annoyed, irritated. I am home from work, but a man who contributes nothing to the household and who doesn’t live here was blocking the driveway with his car.
I got back into the car and tooted the horn again.
At last he appeared. Running late apparently.
Every morning he comes into the house and collects the sandwiches that, yes I have prepared for him.
Every evening he takes a shower here.
I pay all of the bills now, and he does not live here. But this house is jointly owned.
Wish you luck. It sounds like you are ready for this step.
Blimey yes….being blunt..get him out the house…if he isnt contributing. He isnt going to want to move on all the time your doing things for him, even though its little things.
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I am ready and yes, I must and will do this.