Lots of it.
I wrote this on Monday, but somehow didn’t find the time to post. So as you read this, imagine it is still Monday.
I can’t deny being a happy girl today. After the stresses of the build up and run up to Christmas, I spent the last couple of days in Master’s company. As temperatures here have plummeted, we have been relaxing and spending time together. We managed to fit in a concert and dinner, plus meals enjoyed together in doors. Added to that, wine, beer and champagne.
Last week we took that champagne with us for our weekend away, but somehow we just didn’t get the time in our room together to enjoy it and relax. Last night though, we did just that, relaxed, watched TV and drank champagne.
Then we went to bed and had some very good sex. I guess if you were a fly on the walls (so long as you were deaf), you would think that most of the sex we enjoy appears reasonably vanilla. But it really is far from it. While there may have been no restraints or spanking implements (other than the little paddle Master playfully used on me as a ‘punishment’ for brattiness), one of the key elements that is always present is the power dynamic.
I am the submissive and He is without doubt in control the whole time. He loves that part of the dynamic, but then I suppose that is what makes Him the Dominant and me, well not. So whatever the position He is the one in charge. I had never imagined that being on top of Him or even sitting on his face could still be a place of submission, but it certainly can be and is for me. Sometimes on the face of it (pardon the pun), the sex might look pretty ordinary, pretty tame, but listen to the commentary that goes with it and you will find it is pretty damn kinky.
I for one am looking forward to lots more of the same in 2015.
Happy New Year!!