It is a very long time since i felt the need to post twice in a day, but today feels like one to do just that.

To recap, i have been chatting to someone in a chatroom on, and since we live within 45 mins of each other (less on a weekend) we decided to meet.

In my last post i was wondering if i should wear jeans or a dress. I wanted the dress and flirt thing, but like a good subgirl  i asked him and he said jeans were fine. This was, it transpired because he wasn’t sure he would fancy me. Plus, he planned some strolling around the village after the pub.

I wasn’t sure myself at the beginning, but as we chatted and he started to stroke my thigh, i started to warm considerably. Our chatting combined the ordinary getting to know you stuff with the kink. As usual i had more to tell than him, but that is just me. he let his hands and looks do the talking.

It was a sunny if cold day and he suggested a walk around the beautiful country village where we had met in the pub.  This village has two churches, one the original and one that the Lord of the manor had built because the old one was perhaps too old! On a winters day this gives ample opportunity for a discussion of kinky likes and dislikes, kisses, and gropes where a man and a woman feel a physical attraction.

Back at the pub, i over ruled my previous diet coke related sensible side and ordered a glass of sauvignon blanc.  As i warmed up and we chatted more, he asked if i wanted to go back to his. i was sorely tempted but remembered my head, which was difficult when he stroked my leg, thigh and groin and of course when he kissed me.

At my car he squeezed my nipple hard though my top and told me how much he wanted me.

I don’t think it will be very long before i explore the potentials a little more.

The great thing is that joolz the sub is hopefully back…….

New phase – moving on

Life around here could have been rather dull if i had let it. After all, hubby is away more than he has been home, son has been visiting friends in California (though he got home earlier in the week). Faced with the prospect of just the computer or tv for company during these dark and wet evenings i chose my laptop.

i joined quite a while ago, but generally didn’t use it. Firstly i wasn’t looking for anyone and secondly i wasn’t really chatting online – i had S to keep me amused quite a bit of the time. Last weekend though i bit the bullet and reacquainted myself with the site and began chatting in one of the rooms. I have to say that i have been having the most fun; chatting, flirting, scening and just laughing (sometimes until my sides split).  I know these places have something of a reputation, but i have to speak as i found and i have found myself a fun time.

One of the first people i chatted with, lives pretty near to me. He and i seem to have hit it off and have  spent lots of time over the last week getting to know each other online (in the chat and on yahoo). Today i plan to meet him for a drink.

I don’t know if we will like each other in real life, or if (as has happened in the past) we like each other but don’t fancy each other. But the chance of being allowed to explore my submission again fills me with excitement.

Now i am struggling to decide what to wear – should i dress in my usual Saturday stuff – jeans, sweater and boots, or shall i go for a red dress, stockings and a smallish heeled boot? I am erring towards the latter not just because of what we are meeting to talk about but because it is not every week i meet a man for a drink (even if this will be in the middle of the afternoon).

Now, i have the morning to wash my hair and get ready and later, i will report back to my blog on how it went. Here’s hoping that there is something worthwhile to tell!