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Thinking ahead

So far autumn has been pretty ok. A bit on the wet side, but then that has been this year all over, but reasonably mild. By the weekend though we are told we can expect some colder weather, with a bit of wind chill thrown in. i really need a new coat for winter and today, the day before payday, while out getting some lunch, i have seen a new coat i think i might buy for winter. As usual i was considering the usual things – will it be warm enough, the right colour, will it suit me? Today though i was wondering how it will look if i were to wear it with just bra (or perhaps a corset), stockings and suspenders underneath. Along with, perhaps a nice pair of long boots. What on earth has come over me? i may well make my purchase at the weekend, depending on how it looks on.

i think to be realistic it is going to be quite difficult to get together with Sir very frequently over the winter  months. His working hours are longer, the days themselves are shorter (well they are all the same length but daylight will be less), and that journey is no fun in the dark. i am running out of holiday that i can take, plus with changes ahead at work, i will need to be around as much as possible to stand the best possible change of still being in a job by April. Plus with the NHS changes, there will be less and less reason for me to ever have a day, much less a night away from home. i know opportunities will come up, but we have to be realistic.

Maybe we can chat on the phone and skype (not the same but sometimes you have to do these things). But i know this will mean it is difficult to feel quite so submissive as i can when we are together. So i am seeking a bit of advice here, from those of you who do more of this whole long distance stuff, or who have more experience. What can we do to keep things going through the long winter months? i am sure i will get the coat and i am sure i will wear it for him, but opportunities will be far and few between. Your thoughts are very welcome.

3 thoughts on “Thinking ahead”

  1. Thanks both of your for your input. We don't have rituals and perhaps that would be an idea. I will have a talk to Him about that when i see him (hopefully in just over a week). Talking is definitely important, as are all forms of communication. Thanks again.

  2. Good luck! I agree with abby that rituals and daily contact via email or text might make it easier.
    When we are unable to meet , we've always made an effort to stay in touch. It helps somewhat.
    I have no rituals and at times , wish I did. Find the things you think will help and talk about them soon.

    Everyone has moments of insecurity.. even dominants!

  3. Daily contact…even if just by text…and certain rituals. Pray for a warm winter?? Good luck, when you are used to 'hands on' separation can be tough. We are here to listen!
    hugs abby

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