Does any element of BDSM occur as a part of your submissive relationships? How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core to your submission, peripheral or non-existent (other than the submission part)?
Wikipedia tells me that BDSM is a portmanteau acronym (love that word) for Bondage / Discipline, Dominance / Submission, Sadism / Masochism
All of these elements are present to a greater or lesser degree, as i have pretty much described throughout this series of posts. Sir has the best bed for being tied to (in my humble opinion) and that happened from the start, we have since moved onto that lovely day in May when i was tied to a tree. I am also now often cuffed. But there is not always a need to be physically restrained, the restraints can be mentally applied – don’t touch, keep your hands above your head, spread your legs and keep them like that. Sometimes emotional bonds can be just as effective. This is where the discipline comes in, because not keeping the hands away, not asking to touch or to take Sir’s cock might lead to some kind of punishment. And as discussed in a comment on the last post (day 8 and 9) more punishment may yet be applied in the near future, which will mean there is more discipline. There is also the structure that i crave, which is something we are also discussing. Sir thinks that perhaps i need more discipline. Yes please i say!
Dominance and submission? Well yes. Haven’t i spoken of this enough? Finding someone to dominate me, allowing me to express my submission, has been the making of me as far as i can see.
So Sadomasochism? Wikipedia (again) tells me that this is the receiving of pleasure through the infliction or reception of pain or humiliation. Who ever knew that pain could give you such pleasure? Well certainly not me who always avoided pain. Who knew that the more pain that was inflicted on your nipples, on your backside (to give just two examples) could arouse you in the way it does to me. As Sir says – it makes you so wet!
As for humiliation; well i know that i am turned on beyond anything by being made to wear clothes i consider a bit risque for a woman of my age, to be provocative to Sir in a public place and to appear to pick up a stranger. More of this excitement will happen in the week to come!
Plus as of this morning the corset fits – i predict that will lead to some fun along the entire BDSM spectrum, Can’t wait!