France

So, here we are in the south of France. It’s a tad cold right now, so tonight’s dinner for me was a lovely Ragout and for Master, Spaghetti Carbonara. With some local red wine, of course. I would have let you see a photo of my pudding, the house peach gateau but I ate it before I thought things through.

 

So this is 28th February and this is my 28th February photofest picture. It has been fun, if a little tricky at times to work out quite what to post.
I will try to post as much as possible during March, but I can’t guarantee so many photos.

This weekend

Love this view, and have it on my desktop
We  are going to France, to my apartment, my bolt hole. Over there, hopefully it will be a little more sunny and a little warmer than over here. Plus we get the chance to be properly away from everything.
View over the pool from the apartment
The main reason for travelling is to make sure all is well after the winter, to prepare for the coming summer and to organise someone to look after the place should I manage to get some complete strangers to book up.
It looks lovely at night

In other news, I am preparing to move to my own domain. This whole blogger thing is the final straw for me. It isn’t that I really need to post photos that might be considered pornographic by some, but that this whole google /  blog thing will just run and run. Plus, it will be my place, somewhere I can express myself. I know some people find the whole wordpress platform tricky, but I really need to find a permanent home and maybe that is the place.

masterspleasingbitch.com/blog (work in progress)!

 

Blogger

When I first received the email* I thought it was a scam. Even though we have been warned before about blogger’s intention to sanitise everything – apparently to the extent that even breastfeeding isn’t ok, I really didn’t believe it.

They sent the email, not to my main google account, but to a secondary one that I use for anyone wanting to contact me here. Plus I has an unusual amount of activity from eastern Europe yesterday, which confused me.

Apparently though their intention is to make any kind of erotic or explicit blog private.

It is really only this month that I have posted any photos of myself that are really explicit, though sometimes I have posed photos of others that are freely available. My words though have often described actions in that way.
But actually that is not the point. Nothing on this blog has ever been really obscene, nor illegal. Plus the blog itself sits behind a warning that this is an adult place.
As far as I can see, we all have the right to express ourselves and should be free to do so.
I am in the process of moving to my own domain, and once that is ready, I will point this blog towards that new place.
Meanwhile; Here is today’s February photofest picture:
Today, I bought a new top.; who knows if this is too much for blogger!

Submission and the plug

This girl snuggled up to Master as He read her blog post. her hand stroked His cock and felt it harden. That post was about her submission, a statement of the ways in which she feels that her needs as His submissive are growing and deepening. It was written after two pretty intense sessions on Friday night and Saturday morning, and now on Sunday He was able to see that this was written from her heart. That post was about her understanding of their relationship in the here and now.

In that post, this girl spoke of their discussions about a tattoo, and also about her hope that one day she would wear His collar.
Now on Sunday afternoon, as this girl stroked Him, they looked at some steel collars together. He said He had been thinking that He wanted to buy a collar and maybe a steel cuff for her wrist. He began to pinch and stroked her pierced nipples and then sometime over the next few minutes she was naked, and sucking His hard cock.
For the third time that weekend this girl found herself riding Him. Found herself expressing herself in the slutty words He loves to hear, while He encouraged her to release herself to Him. Well when girl says encouraged, perhaps it was more like those orgasms were ground from her. Whatever, submission overtook her and she felt His power flow through her.
Later, when she had been offered his gift orally they spoke about this coming weekend, time away from home.
This girl promised to wear her plug much more, so she is ready to take Him during that time.
Last night she wore that plug all night and intends to wear it again tonight. This is the one rule that she hasn’t really been following as she should and it is one thing she intends to put right.

Slutty girl

This weekend has definitely been characterised by this girl’s relaxed but slutty behaviour. Master has said that it seemed that this girl needed to express herself in this way, and of course as usual He is right.
This photo shows this girl, in her liberated state, nipple piercing showing. This is a look and feel, that this girl loves. 

 

Masturbation

Sometimes inspiration comes out of the blue. I am really enjoying February Photofest, but I put myself in the mix and got involved (as is my way) without thinking things through. Planning some kink related photos for your blog for a week is pretty easy, especially when some have already been taken in the recent past. But continuing for 28 days is a challenge. The added challenge is that this is not a photo blog, it is about me and my submissive journey and about my relationship with my Master.

Today’s photo – my 17th – is one I took of myself in May last year when Master was away in the USA. It was taken on my camera, using the timer rather than using the mobile. I think this is something I need to think about for the remaining 11 days of this challenge.

hub sub in Phx commented on my last post and led me to his most recent entry about masturbation within relationships. My comment there was about my current relationship, but that has led me to think about what went before.

It was pretty usual for hubby and I to masturbate. But we never did so in front of each other.

When I look back I can see that things were pretty sad. I generally shied away from contact with him, sex was not fulfilling for either of us. He really never worked out what I needed and anyway I am not sure that was the point for him. While he wanted us both to enjoy sex, he wanted to cum and do it quickly, sex wasn’t about mutual enjoyment especially as he really didn’t know how to make me cum. This meant there was little in the way of foreplay and often the whole thing could last as long as an advert break on TV.

Since neither of us were satisfied, we both masturbated, just not with or near each other. I was rarely satisfied, no matter how often I made my self cum and I suspect it was the same for him.

Things are different in this relationship. I am sure Master masturbates when I am not there, though perhaps not really often (I am sure He will correct me if I am wrong),  I do not.  I don’t think I have anything to worry about even if He masturbated a lot, since our sex life is good.

I am allowed to masturbate, but should ask permission to cum (this can be done retrospectively) since my orgasms belong to Him not to me. But I really don’t feel the need.

I have learned the joy of mutual masturbation and of watching each other.

Each relationship is different but I am pretty sure, if you feel the need to masturbate frequently, without the other person present, when married or in a serious relationship (whether you actually do so or not), then something is wrong.

So to the photo – girl masturbating over a mirror for Her Master who was 6000 miles away at the time.

Scrutiny

Master reads this blog. Indeed He doesn’t only read it but scrutinises it and commits much of what I write to memory. He remembers so much more about the things I have written here than I ever do. You see, essentially I write in the moment. I usually start with a title and some kind of idea of what I am going to say and then just let the thing flow. Occasionally I know exactly what I will say, but more often than not, what emerges is a little different from what was planned.

Not only does He read my blog, but the comments. Plus, if people comment, He often reads their blog too. He has a reasonable amount of time on His hands, but in the main He does this because He is interested enough in me and my thoughts to read not only what I say and think, but those who visit here too.

I have no problem with this level of scrutiny, after all I led Him here (and to my previous blog) in the first place. We often discuss my blog posts and the comments, we discuss what might have been on my mind at the time and what has happened subsequently. Having come from a relationship where feelings were not discussed without raised voices, this is liberating. Nothing is off limits here, but I know that if I write it and it hasn’t already been discussed then ultimately it will be.

This morning I took this photo.

Master hangs these lovely floggers and other similar things to the end of a wardrobe in the play room in His house. They haven’t been used in a while, but when He feels the time is right again they will be and when they are used, I will probably write about it here and He will no doubt want to talk about what I write.

Since I started this post without a clear idea of where I was going, other than the photo. I guess I will just have to wait and see where it ends once He has read my words, analysed them and discussed them with me.

I have an idea, but only time will tell.