Reflections on us and the blog

We have been together for 4 years in February. By anyone’s judgement that is a proper, long term relationship. We still don’t live together, but tend to spend more time together than apart. When apart we Skype, so contact is daily. We have settled into a comfortable existence that is as much about ordinary mundane stuff as it is about kink and sex. To prevent this blog from becoming dull and boring, somewhere along the line I stopped writing so much. After all, who wants to read about us sitting on the sofa with a bottle of wine chatting about our next (or last holiday)? Time perhaps to reflect on our relationship and the blog?

Sex for us is often similar in the way it plays out and while far from boring, writing about it feels quite repetitive. We don’t play as much as we did for a variety of reasons. Time and our social life and holidays are part of the reason. Laziness might be a factor too. I wonder if my lack of blog posts is laziness too. Maybe I just need to get off my arse (as it were) and write stuff about us. I love to look back and see what we have done over time. I know Master does too. But if I don’t write about it then we can hardly do that!

I often post photos for Sinful Sunday that have a back story. Quite rightly, I keep those posts short since Sinful Sunday is about the photo. But rarely these days do I go back and fill in the gaps. This feels like a mistake. Take this photo, that I posted a couple of Sunday’s ago. It stands alone as an image, the beautiful colours, the light streaming in onto the bed and spreading across my face. Spread out naked, exposed. Clearly I didn’t take this photo (unless I used a timer). No one else is in shot, but I know that the other person in the room is responsible for me wanting to lie there naked. Still in the throw of ecstasy.

While we were away over the past couple of weeks our libido, missing for much of the year returned. That morning he had awoken and demanded I move to the edge of the bed so he could lick me out. The photo was taken many orgasms later. I don’t think we had penetrative sex that day, but as is often the case that didn’t matter. This is a happy sexy photo, which screams contentment. It occurs to me that my life with Master is good and deserves to be written about. I am planning to do much more of that. My November challenge for myself!


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Author: Julie

50 something woman, exploring life and enjoying new adventures. This website is a record of a journey from vanilla wife and mother through two new relationships. This woman is now a collared slave called MPB and is owned and controlled by her Master. A mixture of true events and memes it is often of a sexual nature and is not safe to view at work. Next things to try will be fiction. Watch this space.

29 thoughts on “Reflections on us and the blog”

  1. Many thanks for your post Julie. Lovely to hear the background to your gorgeous photo. Looking forward to reading more of your blogs. Sofas, wine and holidays are all grist to the mill! ☺

  2. Thank you for this cool post.
    I much prefer going on a woman and licking her out to penetrative sex. And, that also means I can help her to more and better orgasms. <3 <3 <3

  3. Your blog is for your master and you. Does it really matter what other people think of even if they read it? I feel the same as you, I barely blog because I don’t have anything new and exciting to blog about every single day, so I totally understand and feel somewhat obligated to write but then I remember, my blog is not a job, I’m not trying to get on any to sex blogger list or anything. My blog is and always has been a place for me to work through my thoughts and document my journey. If someone reads it and benefits from it in some way, fantastic! If not that’s okay too. I think it’s important to know what your goals are for your blog and move forward accordingly. I, personally, always enjoy your posts (even though I don’t always comment)

    1. I am not sure the post came across in the right way. We like to read back, but if you write nothing there is nothing to read. Other people reading it is extra but always welcome xx

      1. Love that pic, thanks for sharing. I have not blogged for a bit, and we also like to look back and see where we were and our journey to now…missing out on that tempts me to blog again…but life has not been allowing us much real play time…good to hear from you.
        hugs abby

        1. Thanks abby, good to hear from you too. Life really does get in the way doesn’t it? Finding time to read blogs is something else I need to do!

  4. I think it happens with many of us. I feel you about the sexual encounters sounding repetitive despite them not feeling anything close to boring for the players involved. I have been writing less as well, but perhaps as u say, that is also the result of some laziness on my part. I shall endeavour to be more diligent in blogging! Good luck. And lovely lovely foto!

  5. A lovely picture – you look so relaxed and at peace with yourself. I just want to let you know I always look forward to reading your posts and appreciate you sharing your life with us. Thank you once again.

  6. I recently took some time to search through and re-read some of my older posts. Like you, I sometimes feel the writing gets repetitive. But I was pleasantly surprised, when reading back, to recognize changes – in myself, my writing, and my relationship – that would not have been obvious otherwise.

  7. Hurrah…. I look forward to reading much more. I can totally understand doubting yourself with regards to blogging, sometimes I think mine is getting boring and stale and then I remember that I write it for me and that is all that matters although the readers make me very happy they are not my driving force


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