Memes – 30 days of me, 30 days of submission, 30 days of Kink

30 Days of me

Got this list from sin at finding my submission. The list is below and once I complete each day I will link it to the blog page.

2.       A favourite movie
4.       A friend I admire
5.       My hometown
6.       Best vacation spot
7.       A song for the day
9.       A close up of my day
17.   My family
21.   A self portrait

30 Days of submission


It feels like time to explore my submission through 30 days of Submission. I have enjoyed reading this on other blogs and the time feels right for me. As I move through the list, I will link each one in the list below to the blog post.
17) What does trust mean to you in the context of submission?

18) Very often the stereotype of submission is that the submissive person loses the ability to have an opinion. While that clearly isn’t true except in the absolute rarest of occasions, how does communication factor into your submission and how do you communicate your desires and needs?

19) How socially connected is your submission? Do you look for others to talk to about your submission for support or networking? Do you go to events or connect through another sort of social grouping either in person or online?

20) Has your submission increased or decreased over time? Have you ever had to renegotiate your submission due to a change in your feelings or circumstance?

21) Is there a physical position that makes you feel most submissive?


17-21 revisited

22) Can you feel submissive without a dominant partner? If so, how does your submission express itself? If not, how do you handle your submission or submissive feelings?

23) Is there anything about submission (yours or what you see in others) that you question, dislike or repels you? Was there a time you questioned or were resistant to your own submissive feelings?

24) What are the emotions that most directly let you access submission? What feelings do they inspire?

25) Are there items, objects or rituals that represent or help you express submission? If not, have you ever thought of adding or being gifted one? Is there a special significance to these objects or rituals?

26) What are the qualities you seek in a dominant partner and why? Are some qualities deal-breakers as in “must” haves or “must not” have?

27) Do you have submissive desires or fantasies that you have yet to be able to explore? Do some of your desires confuse or frighten you? Do they excite you?


28) Has your submission ever let you down? Have you ever been criticized for your submission? Have you ever regretted being or feeling submissive in a moment or in a relationship? Have you ever looked back and realized you made a mistake and how did you handle your submission going forward from that.

29) Is pain or humiliation (spankings for example) a part of your submission? What is your relationship to it? Do you embrace it as a part of your submission, tolerate it as necessary or have some other type of relationship with it?

30) Is your need to submit being met? If not, or if your situation changed, do you think that you could continue in your life and still be happy/content if you were never able to express your submission in the way that feels best to you again? What makes submission special to you?

The 30 Days of Kink