Unlike day 11, 12-15 lend themselves to a multiple post, so here goes.
Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had.
We love to people watch (that goes for kinky and non kinky) and there’s lots to enjoy and laugh about between yourselves when you watch people. Sometimes it’s about people who take themselves way way too seriously and other times it will be about something someone has said or something they did. Munches can be a good place for that kind or interest. Maybe it isn’t kind, but we are older than many people and don’t tend to take ourselves quite as seriously as some others do.
Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
Maybe this girl has always known she was different to other people when it comes to sex, and things that turn her on. It was always easier to ignore those feelings than face them though. In the end though, facing the reality of who you are is easier than turning your back on it.
- This girl is turned on by the idea of submitting to another. What is more that submission provides a release from thoughts that would otherwise invade her mind.
- This girl finds being restrained (in more ways than being bound by the wrists for example) something that is erotic but also calming.
- Pain and pleasure are very closely linked
- A person doesn’t need to be constrained by the ideas (she) has about what is ‘normal’. Indeed, by giving those decisions to another a person can find that those original thoughts have moved somewhat.
- Just when you think you might have travelled as far as you can, BDSM sends you further on that journey of self discovery.
Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink?
In real life we continue to live in the real world. We still have our families, jobs and whatever shit goes with all of that. This means we can’t spend our lives naked and chained at someone’s feet. Plus our Doms aren’t millionaires who spend their lives juggling their subs with their multinational industries. Oh yes and this girl is way to heavy for Master to carry into his private jet at the dead of night so she wakes up across the atlantic. But this girl is working on her weight, and He is working on his wealth so who knows!
Day 15: Post A BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.
We haven’t played at a club but that will change soon.